Ritesh: Guruji aap ke book srimadbhagwat 1 ek vedic rahasye hai. me page 437 pe.. aapene likha hai. agr insan sirf wish ke liye devtao ka hawan kre to jaldi puri hori hai whi pe ye navgrah pooja ye sb hote hai.. aapene ye likha hai wish puri ho jati hai bt god ka relaztion nhi hoya .. aap ye clear kr do..kya mtlab hai ise slok ka?
Swami Ram Swarup: Ved vidya hamein yeh samjhatee hai ki manushya sukh chahta hai, dukh kadapi nahin chahta aur sukh praptee ke liye ek nirakaar, sarvavyapak, sarvashaktimaan God kee hee Pooja kee jaatee hai. Devtaon kee Pooja se sukh shanti moksh aadi prapt nahi hotey. Vastutaha vedon mein jad devtaon kee Pooja varjit hai aur yadi koi vedon ke vidwan kee sewa karta hai to weh vidwan usey vedic shiksha dekar arth, dharma, kaam aur moksha kee sidhi prapt karaate hain. Jaise maine upar kaha ki vedon mein navgrah , sooraj , chand, ped- paudhey, jal aadi jitnein “jad” devta hain unkee poja kabhi bhi nahi kee jaatee. Vastutaha in jad devtaon kee sthirta kewal Ishwar kee Pooja jo Yajyen dwara hotee hai ussey hee poorna ho jaatee hai. Aisa ved ne kaha hai.
Rani: Pranaam swamiji..charan sparsh..swamiji aapki tabiyat kaisi hai? Swamiji meri ek saheli hai..skijab shaadihui thi woh kaafisukhi thi pati patni mein kaafi prem tha.shaadik 5 saal hue the, do bacche bhi the..par swamiji kisibaat par dono mein koi jhagada hua, aur pati ne ussey gusse mein ghar se chale jaane ko kaha,aur kabhi apni sakal dekhaane kliye toh swamiji woh bhi gusse mein chali gayi..par swamiji wohmaabaapkhar na jaakar canada chali gayi aur wahan apnecolege ek ek dost,k ghar rehne lagi .wohi apna bussiness start kar liya..swamiji ab 10 saal ho gaye hai ,usne apneghar waalonse ya pati se contact nahi kiya,ghar waaley samjhte hai ki woh ab iss duniya meinnahi hai..mujhe iss baat ka pata kuch din pehle jab mai apne husband ksaath canada ghumne gayi tohpata chala..main ussey poocha ki kya itne saalkiya toh usne bataya k jouska frnd hai uski patni ki mrityu ho chuki thi jab woh gayi ,uske chotey bacche the,toh woh usiost kghar rehti thi aur bacchokekh bhaalmaa k tarah karti thi aur apna bussiness bhi..unhone kabhi bhiapnimaryada par nahiki par ab wohdost ussey apni patni banana chahta hai swamiji mujh yeh thoda ajeeb laga isliyemainkuch prasnn poochna chahti hu.
q1) swamiji kya koi aurat kisi gair mard k ghar reh sakti hai agar woh uska dost ho,aur agar dono apni maryada mein rahe aur alag alag kamre mein rahe jaise do male friends k beech mein rishta hota hai..
q2)swamiji jo mitrata ka rishta hota hai kya woh kabhi ek stree aur purush kbeech mein possible hai.
q3)swamiji kyauska dost sahi kar raha hai ,yeh baat jaantey huek yeh shaadishuda aurat hai aur iska patizinda hai aur yeh jaanbuchkar apne ghar par nahi bataya ki yeh zina hai abhi toh bhi ussey vivaah karna chahta hai .uska kehna hai ki yeh khud nahi chahti ki ghar par kisikopata chale ki yeh zina hai ,aur ab issey aagey badh jaana chahiye aur ek nayi zinagi shuru karni chahiye.
q4) swamiji kya yeh theek hai k agar aapka pati zinda hai phir bhi aap gair aadmi k saath raho aur woh samjhe aap mar chuke ho,kintu swamiji usne kabhi uss aadmik saath uss tarah ka sambandh nahi rakkha hamesha apnimaryada maintain rakkhi .kabhi vyabhichaar khayalmann meinbhi nahi laya but jabseusne ussey shaadikliye bola hai..woh ab duvidha meinhai..kya swamiji yeh shaadi jaayaz rahegi?
q5-mwaisebhiswamijikisistree ka apne malefrien k ghar par bagair vivaah k rehna kya theekhai? kya yeh paap hai agar stree purush ek ghar mein dost k tarah rahe,without marriage agar woh apni maryada cross nahi kar rahe,jaise do male friends ek ghar mein reh saktey hai.
Swamiji agar aap sawaalo ka vedo dwara pramaan dekar uttar denge toh badikripahongi..
meripatikakehna hai ki aurat mard kabhi dost nahihotey ,iska pramaan woh yeh kehte hue de rahe the kiaakhir mein uss aadmimein ussey apni paatni banae k iccha jaagi hi yeh baat jaante hue ki uskapatijeevit hai..
Agar ussey apne ghar parayi stree ko rakhna hi tha toh behan bana kar rakhta toh ussey aisa khayaal kabhinahi aata..hamari bharati sabhayata bhi yahi kehti hai parayi stree kobehan ka dara diya jaata hai.par wohtohussey patni bana chahta hai..aap iss vishay par guidekijiye swamiji..
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you, my daughter. I am fine beti.
1.) Vedon ke anusaar koi bhi patni apne pati ke ghar se ek raat ke liye bhi bahar nahin reh saktee.
2.) Ek istree aur purush ke beech mein mitrata ka rishta kabhi bhi possible nahi ho sakta. Kyunki jub opposite sex ekele ek ghar mein rehte hain tub indriyan itnee prabal, shaktivaan hotee hain ki usko control mein nahi laya ja sakta. Opposite sex ke liye ekaant hamesha paap karane mein smarth hota hai.
3.) Uska dost sahi nahi kar raha. Han! Yadi aapki saheli pehle pati se talak lele tub sab kuch bilkul theek hoga.
