Rajeev: Pranam guruji, aap kahte ho humesha ved k rashte par chalo,sbka bhala socho aur sbke sath acche se behave karo,par humare aspaas to selfish aur jhute log bhare pare hai,jo sirf apne matlab ko dekhte h,hum ya to unka sath chor skte h ya unke jhut ka virodh kr sakte hai,par dono surto me unke sath rahna mushkil h,aur hum kitno ka sath chore yahan to lagbhag sab waise hi hai,phir to hum akele rah jaenge,kya inke liye aisa hi soch apna na chahie jaisa wo humare sath apna te hai,agar aisa kare to unme aur hum me kya fark rah jaega..ab is situation me humara dharm kya kehta hai? Plz iska hal bataiye..
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you. Bhala karne wala kabhi selfish aur bure logon kee parwah nahin karta balki unhein gyan deine kee koshish karta hai aur jo nahin sudharte unse raag-dwesh kabhi nahin karta kewal unse bachne ke koshish karta hai. Is prakar rehna mushkil nahin hoga. Rehna mushkil tab hota hai jub hum kisi se raag-dwesh karte hain aur uske liye bura sochtey hain.
I also paste my answer below-
You know, python coils itself around sandal wood tree but its poison does not effect the sandalwood tree. A tapasvi/aspirant has to live like that why do we became victim of surroundings? Because we pay our attention towards them, otherwise there is no problem. When we’ll pray to God about the justice in any matter, the matter will become silent, one day automatically.
Yahi hamara dharma kehta hai ki hum milkar rahein lekin burai aur burey aadmi se bachkar rahein.
R N: Swamiji Pranam, I have a friend. On the day of Amavasya, he feels some disturbance i.e. anger, irritation, hurdles in work places, etc etc. He is a very nice person and afraid of amavasya. What should he do to come out of this problem?
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you, my daughter. You may please ask him to explain all his problems to me and I will try my level best to satisfy him and remove his problems.
Ankur: Sasdar pranam,, kya aap avdhoot bhagwan RAM aur unke dwara esthapit ashram ke bare mein bata sakte hain?
Swami Ramwarup: My blessings to you. Sorry, Mujhe is ashram ke vishaye mein kuchh pata nahin hai.
K: Namaste Swamiji I have lots of confusions I love someone who is married already he too loves me a lot he wants to keep the relation forever but hiding he says that even I should get married to someone for the society what should I do?
Swami Ram Swarup: You are inviting problems for yourself. Even to think about love with a married person in this way, your life will be ruined. So, I will advise you to leave the sinful matter immediately.